tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7481066555275647929.post5404043240212584217..comments2023-04-02T05:24:38.237-04:00Comments on The Why Behind: Making Sense of ThingsErinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14970100007927872296noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7481066555275647929.post-22856450105898451302009-04-16T21:46:00.000-04:002009-04-16T21:46:00.000-04:00Not everything will make sense. It's true. And t...Not everything will make sense. It's true. And there's only so much lemonade that can be made from lemons in my book. The rest must just be put aside. I love that you want to squeeze the last (or only) drop of goodness out of a bad situation, but sometimes you just have to throw it out and move on. <br /><br />Hey, I have your phone number in my cell phone wrong. Please call me back!Jimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05074489577094762545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7481066555275647929.post-74518424209708130712009-03-31T14:40:00.000-04:002009-03-31T14:40:00.000-04:00"if you wanna sing out, sing out!""if you wanna sing out, sing out!"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7481066555275647929.post-67177285021187619832009-03-31T14:38:00.000-04:002009-03-31T14:38:00.000-04:00maybe it is God saying that the lesson to learn is...maybe it is God saying that the lesson to learn is that there is no lesson--that you cannot improve or change this thing, whatever it is so cope:let go, move on, etc.<BR/><BR/>(easy to say, hard to do)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7481066555275647929.post-60726731968646635412009-03-31T09:27:00.000-04:002009-03-31T09:27:00.000-04:00Wow. I was amazed that I could read that last para...Wow. I was amazed that I could read that last paragraph. So you're saying that spelling is irrelevant??! YAY!!<BR/><BR/>I think I agree with your former boss... sometimes shit just happens. I honestly dont think God was trying to teach me anything from the death of my husband. How people die and live are part of the randomness of free will. If there's a God, I'm pretty sure he feels just as bad about my loss as I do... and he apologizes for the crappy genetics that comprised my husband's heart. That's how I get through the day.<BR/><BR/>Still, it doesnt mean I didnt learn anything from the experience. I'd say the best thing I can take away from what I went through is that I should not sweat the small stuff anymore. And I dont know. I think I would make a man a better wife now than I did Mike.Mars Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11403414048823693159noreply@blogger.com